Why do girls have sex with a boyfriend for years , then complain when he won’t commit to marriage?
If you put out too easy and never develop the relationship, why would a guy marry you when he is already getting what he wants. What can you offer him in marriage that you haven’t already given him?
Marriage is not about sex. Stop being an idiot.
Guys help – Why won’t he commit?
I started dating this guy in October. He‘s a good guy and we always have a great time together. We hang out all the time, and we never get sick of each other. I like him a lot and I want to be with him, but he hasn’t said anything about being official. He says that I’m the type of girl he would want to be with, and he isn’t seeing anyone else. He always talks about the future and includes me in his. However, he had been in an 8 year relationship and hasn’t had a girlfriend since. What should I do?
Give it sometime, October is pretty early for a commitment.
Just dont rush it and it will come faster than you think.
Is she too good for him? Is that why he won’t commit?
My best friend is gorgeous! And she’s so nice, she been hooking up with one of her brothers mates who isn’t the best looking guy ever! She’s heard he‘s a bit of a player but that’s why she likes him!
She told me she’s starting to fall for him, and she’s upset because she knows he will never feel the same.
Is it because he is quite good friends with her brother (they are already keeping their sex secret)
Or because he loves the ladies a bit too much, he‘s just come out of an on-off relationship which went on for like 4 years.
I personally think it’s because she’s too good for him? Maybe he thinks that she will never like him and he‘s just getting what he can out of her?
I’ll let you decide!
This is her:http://img405.imageshack.us/img405/7251/62430436475716297550026.jpg
And this is him: http://img291.imageshack.us/img291/3545/35138153355686132813070.jpg
I really don’t she the attraction in him, but she’s always had a weird taste in men.
But help me because I hate seeing her upset!
First off, the issue of appearances is a complete red herring. It has nothing to do with anything. And I am dumbfounded by the rest of your question – you are asking why some guy who is KNOWN to be a player, doesn’t commit to her??!! Um, it’s pretty obvious – he’s a player. That’s what players do. HE doesn’t need a REASON not to commit. And hey, why would he? She is giving it all away for free. A secret relationship, total deniability on his part – and he’s getting laid!!
He doesn’t CARE if she likes him. Your friend is just another sheep to the slaughter. And whenever your friend wakes up and wonders why she expects so little for herself, there will be more women who lack self esteem, or who somehow delude themselves that THEY’LL be the ones to change the guy, when he has no interest in changing and no need to do so.
Why are you worried about your friend’s attractiveness ratings relative to who she is screwing? And why worry that she is upset? This is like worrying about your friend being upset because she stuck her hand in the cobra cage and got bitten. That’s what cobras do. If your friend screws around with players, then she will get played. Oh well – tell her to quit sticking her hand in the cobra cage, find her self respect wherever she stashed it, and dump the guy!
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